When Sue relocated from Canada to Santa Cruz, she wanted to meet members of her new community and give back. She had always been passionate about working with young people, so when a neighbor suggested CASA, she signed up for training right away.
Sue began supporting a resilient youth named Sasha* who was placed out of state in a residential treatment facility. Navigating the differences between that state’s system of care as well as California’s requirements meant Sue had to work twice as hard to get Sasha the services she needed.
But Sue was not deterred. “Finding a way to engage with a child in the way they need is our role,” she said. Despite the distance and complexity, she built a personal connection through phone calls and online meetings. Over time, Sasha began to trust Sue and rely on her guidance.
One of Sue’s proudest moments came from working with Sasha. At first, Sasha could only express frustration through aggressive, highly colorful language. Sue worked with her to reduce escalation and manage overwhelming emotions. Together, they created what they called “psychic swearing,” a tool that has helped Sasha tremendously while strengthening their connection.
Sasha returned home to her family and continues to heal from her past experiences. Sue and Sasha made plans to spend quality time together, getting their nails done and practicing meditation. They also intend to continue using the techniques and strategies that have helped Sasha manage her emotions and build trust. Sue sees her role in Sasha’s journey as a gift, stating, “If I can help illuminate that path, it is a great honor.”
*fictional name
